Bender, Mildred ''Milly'', age 75, of Forest Lake died peacefully in the Pillar;'s Hospice Home in Oakdale of Lung Cancer.Preceded in death by husband of 42 years, Lavon John, her parents, sister, Sylvia Froberg.Lovingly remembered by her daughter, Betty (Bill) Bender & grandson Michael (13), and son, Jack (Cherie) Bender & two granddaughters, Christie (16) and Raegan (13), one sister Chestine Carlsted and nieces and nephews. Visitation 5-8PM Thursday at Mattson Funeral Home, 343 North Shore Drive, Forest Lake. Memorial Service 11AM Friday at Faith Lutheran Church, 886 North Shore Drive, Forest Lake. Interment at Fort Snelling National Cemetery, at a later date. Memorials PreferredMattson Funeral Home651-464-3556